David needs a new lung!
“I stopped breathing for awhile.
But it’s OK, I started again.”
Sadly no, with a fraction of normal lung capacity, breathing has become increasingly problematic for David.
But listening to him is a humbling and positive experience.
I’ll truly miss him if he doesn’t get a new lung soon.
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David has pulmonary fibrosis
I’m increasingly unable to process oxygen.”
“My only hope of survival is a lung transplant.
But shortage of donors means that 3 people die each day waiting for a donor. The NHS Organ Donor Register needs more people to sign up.
David feels this is terribly sad.
“It causes huge unnecessary suffering of patients and their family.”
“I lasted longer than expected, but it’s an unpredictable condition. I’ll be happy to last another few months.”
If it was me we were talking about, it’d have to be from under the duvet where I was hiding. But David’s surprisingly positive and cheerful.
I ask him why.
“We normally live our lives against a background of fear. So many things in our lives frighten us. People avoid thinking about death, but a lucky few of us are forced to face and acknowledge it. The conclusion you have to come to is “is that it?!”
Our big unspoken fear – the bogeyman – just vanishes.”
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See also David on Buddhism and Looking Death Straight in the Eye (part 2) –
Interview with the Bristol Evening Post, looks at how Dharma has enabled David to be that brave.
Also Beauty is to be Found in the Moment – images.
Married with 3 kids and a fat chocolate labrador.
Sep 21, 2012 @ 01:10:26
Wow. What a quote: “We normally live our lives against a background of fear. So many things in our lives frighten us. People avoid thinking about death, but a lucky few of us are forced to face and acknowledge it. The conclusion you have to come to is “is that it?!“ Thank you David.
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Sep 21, 2012 @ 05:14:27
thanks Luna
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Sep 21, 2012 @ 05:12:21
via Facebook:
Amitabha Buddhist Centre – Please make prayers for a kind Bristol Bodhisattva to have good health.
CHERYL B – (♥) Tayatha Om Bekhadze Bekhadze Randzaya Samugate Soha…….
Om Mani Padme Hum…….
JUDY A – He is a decent chap, isn’t he.
CHERYL J – He’s a bright star
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Oct 03, 2012 @ 09:03:24
What’s the Buddhist view on organ donation?
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Oct 03, 2012 @ 11:10:21
Good question. I’d like to do an article on the NKT’s and Triratna’s take on it one day, (as with most things, all the Buddhist schools seem to be a bit different.)
It’s individual choice. Basically though, giving organs means the gift of life, or an improvement in the quality of someone’s life.
That is such an amazing gift and it’s not like the organs are going to be needed by the previous owner anymore.
If however we have reached a level of concentration such that we can direct the mind towards a fortunate rebirth; then we’re not going to want our body disturbed as soon as it’s medically dead. This can happen a lot sooner than actual death, as defined in Buddhism, especially for a trained practitioner. Medical staff have to act pretty quickly if any of our major organs were to be donated as well. so there’s a lot to consider.
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